Making friends at university can be a daunting experience, especially if you're new to the area and adjusting to a different social dynamic. It's completely normal to feel a bit overwhelmed or isolated during this transition. But don't worry! I'm here to share some tips that helped me make amazing friends during my time at uni.
1.Finding Your Tribe
One of the best ways to make friends at university is to explore your hobbies and interests. Think about what you enjoy doing in your free time and look for groups or activities related to those passions. Whether you're into sports, arts, or academic subjects, joining a club or society is a fantastic way to meet like-minded people. Many universities offer a wide range of clubs and societies, from academic to recreational. Find one that aligns with your interests and join in their activities.
2.Don't Hide in the Back Row
Instead of isolating yourself in the back row of lectures or music rooms, take a leap of faith and sit next to someone. A simple introduction can lead to a lasting friendship. You might discover you have shared interests or simply enjoy chatting with a new mate.
3.Finding Study Buddies
Instead of heading home to study alone, consider working in a common area on campus. You might see regular students there, and over time, you could strike up conversations and perhaps even form a study group. Studying with friends can make the process more enjoyable and productive.
4.Join the Fun
Your university's student union likely hosts a variety of events throughout the year, from workshops to social gatherings. These events are a great way to meet new people and have fun. The same goes for dwell accommodation events, which are held monthly. We encourage you to join in or reach out to the Student Engagement team if there's something you'd like to see happening on site to help you feel more involved and part of the community.
5.Volunteer and Connect with Others
Volunteering is not only a rewarding experience but also a fantastic way to meet people who share your values and make a positive impact on your community. While volunteering, take the initiative to start conversations with your fellow volunteers. You might discover shared interests and form lasting friendships. If you aren’t sure where to look when it comes to volunteering, many universities have dedicated volunteer centres that can connect you with local organisation's and opportunities.
Making friends at university requires a bit of effort and openness. Remember, the more you put yourself out there, the more likely you are to connect with amazing people.
It's important to remember that social anxiety is a common experience, especially in new environments. If you're struggling with social anxiety, here are some tips to help you build connections:
Start small: Begin with smaller steps, like saying hello to people in your classes or joining a small group activity.
Focus on common interests: Look for opportunities to connect with people who share your hobbies or passions.
Practice self-care: Make sure to take care of yourself physically and mentally. This includes getting enough sleep, eating healthy, and engaging in activities that you enjoy.
Seek support: If you're feeling overwhelmed by social anxiety, don't hesitate to reach out to a friend, family member, or mental health professional for support, remember your dwell team are here to help as well, if you need to discuss any concerns.
Remember, building friendships takes time and effort. Be patient with yourself, and keep putting yourself out there.
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